the kitchen things…!

How I cherish my good old self who was obsessed with gadgets of almost every type. As bachelor I always thought of having well equipped kitchen whenever I will have my own. I am no pro at cooking nor do I plan to be the one, in short I am not keen in trying and experimenting recipes…! Irrespective of the just mentioned fact, I wanted every available appliance at my disposal.

Not that whatever I dreamt of is reality, but I am in process of reaching where I wanted ;). So far yours truly has got three different types of mixers/grinder (yeah 3 thanks to Mr G for his contribution to bring the numbers up 😉 ) , a griller, microwave oven and a blender to be precise 😉 .

Past two years of lockdown has opened up new feathers of my better half’s personality to me, I find him equally excited while roaming in the utensils shop as me, yeah you are reading it right :D. My affection for him is increased by an inch for this :p . So with this common found interest, we managed to shift from semi to fully automatic washing machine. We planned and have a microwave we are in the process of doing some research for the dishwasher and air fryer.

A few of whatever I have so far are not very regularly used, but let me tell ya, they are my priced possession. The thought of having it all is so damn satisfying, crazy you see 😀 . I haven’t had a recollection of having this draft laying around, now that I noticed it, hitting the button to move it up from drafts…

Disclaimer: please try your best not to find a logical start/middle/end to this post..

dictatorship in disguise…

Support is the sugar coated covering under the wrappers of which lies dictatorship.

It may sound exaggeration, but how is one supposed to take it if dictated for every single so-called decision, even the ones which are just not one’s cup of tea.

How to raise your child, what work location you should choose while you search for new opportunities, how many number of children you should have? When you should have them, what should be the age difference between your two children if you plan for so , when you should visit your parents/sibling , what places you should go both and what not and the list is never ending, argh ….!

I wonder if it’s just me who’s mind replay the entire past years of me getting into a new house and being adjusted, having a baby and then taking care of her ( not sure of the intent of though ) before I give a befitting reply. Do I really need to be obliged so much that I entirely surrender all my life to someone else? Somehow all that I contributed is gone for toss and vanished in the blue sky. The biggest lesson to be learnt here for me is , no matter if it sounds like boasting, one should keep repting the same tape of good things done. That’s the only way forward be it personal or professional life. It is all out of sight/ears out of mind theory.

All this is none less than wake call for me to take good control of everything and do what I feel like doing. I always appreciate and will be grateful for all good that is done to me and try my best to return the favour but certainly not at the cost of my life’s decisions. And that happens to the expectation, I will find a way to move forward without such favors. Wish me strength…!

It’s me,

Yours truly