Its all about thats on my mind…….


July 2012

let the skys be only limit…..

“Mujhe Pankh dedo – Women for Change “

Awesomest lyrics by Prasoon Joshi and beautifully sung by Shuba Mudgal…

Oonche gagan mein udne ka sapna
hatheli se baadal ko chhoone ke armaan
mujhko mitana hai in faaslon ko
mujhe pankh de do
mujhe pankh de do

The dream to fly high in the sky,
dreams of touching the clouds with the palm,
I have to remove these distances,
give me wings,
give me wings..

kal kal karti nadiyaan
mere ghar se kyun na guzrein
rimjhim rinjhim sheetal saavan
angna kyun na barse
badalna hai sadiyon ke in silsilon ko
mujhe pankh de do
mujhe pankh de do

why shouldn’t free flowing rivers go through my home,
why shouldn’t the raining cool monsoon rain in my yard,
I have to change these successions of centuries..
give me wings
give me wings..

mere talwon ke neeche os kyun na muskaaye
chehre par ik dhuli dhuli si kiran,
kyun na gehraaye
aazad kar do mere kaafilon ko
mujhe pankh de do
mujhe pankh de do………………..

why shouldn’t dew drops smile beneath my feet,
why shouldn’t a ray washed (can say, in dew, or sunbathed)
deepen on my face
make my caravans free..
give me wings
give me wings..



She was as simple as a girl next door,but her aspirations were no common.She had striven hard and believed in striving hard to get what she wanted to have.She believed in running her own race.She had grown under the safest place,under her parents wings for long 20 years of her age and the day comes when she had to fly trusting her own wings,without support of those caring wings.She took it as challenge and dared to fly.She being that courageous.Every one around wondered about her fly,may be no one expected it from her.

She landed into a new world,pretending to be bold but scared inside.She was aware things can easily scare her,so being her intrinsic nature. She was just appreciated all the ways from every one around for the guts she showed and dared to fly.

Over the time  she got used with the new predicament.She got the confidence to face the world alone and to stand on her own.She was rejoicing the company of new “SHE”,she was developing in to.  There was feeling of accomplishment that was getting into her.There were just a few more things on her wish list.Life seemed all fair towards her for the world.

Out of no where something started making her feel uneasy and lost.Was that she had almost what she wanted making her feel lost?Was that the feeling of accomplishment that was making her feel empty.LOST she is….!!! she has this phase in her life for the very first time.Prior to this she made sure to line up things to go for every time she reached the milestone.She is unaware of this phase,she just do not know how to get out of it…..

Wish the turmoil to settle down soon for her….wish her life back to her….!!Amen…..!

on the road in the rains….Girl’s day out @Mulashi dam #Pune

the woman in your life…….

To all the guys who read this…..please read fully and understand…………
The woman in your life…

Tomorrow you may get a working woman,  but  you should marry  her  with these facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven’t, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name;

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen;

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn’t want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won’t like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than  you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won’t, simply
because you won’t like it, even though you say otherwise

One, who can be late from work once in a while  when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house – your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly – your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this……

Please appreciate “HER”

I hope you will do….

P.S. – Post is a part of an email forward.

are we turning to be multitasking machines???..

Okay,so we are still in the office in front of the desk,browsing internet,reading some blog posts,commenting on some of the them and thought pops up, are we turning to be multitasking machines???..well I guess yes,we are …!!!

What made this thought to pop in is-right now I can see Four browser windows each with around four tabs open,one with the news paper,other with my own blog page,some others with the things I work on and I am continuously Alt+tabing( switching back and forth 😉 ) between them…So its no more a task at a time….

No,it’s not the only thing that is up, it has following things too  –

1)monitor the mails and answer them ASAP as to cope with the SLA’s (The IMP task).

2)Make and answer the phone calls(Official+personal)


4)Line up the tasks to take over the next day.

5) Switching the FM channels till the song that is worth listening turns up.

6) Complete the blog post.(Spare time activity)

7) Soon its gonna be the time to leave,so save the work that is to be taken up tomorrow.

8)Check for the new app and updates on the play store.

9)Answer/talk to people around.(The team mates).

10) Answer the pings on the IM clients.

Readers may think that I am busy doing everything else than the work,well it isn’t the case people,I am well up with my targets.And I am not the only one doing these things simultaneously.I can see same thing on the every next desk.I can see people switching so smoothly between the tasks as if they have got the multiple core processors inside.Time slicing is so perfectly done that there is no chance to miss the priority of the tasks in the pool.

Is it that we are turning to be what machines are in front of us are i.e. just turning mechanical?Or is it that we have learnt to take time for the things that we like doing out of the 100 odds?Confused I am….!!! 

 To be continued on some another less hectic day…

the growing up-part continued…

The continued part of it is not giving up,it is called growing up

So it is not giving up, it is growing up..!!! When we prefer to say you be what you are and I will be what I am rather than arguing/rigorously discussing to converge on an opinion on the point that is tossed,growing up it is..!!!aint it?

May be at times there simply can’t be one single right side for the situation. Righteousness varies with the role that we are in play at that point of time, righteousness being the subjective term.We learn/prefer to surrender than to win the points in the arguments because we value the relation/person more is how we grow up.We surrender doesn’t mean we have given up on our point,it means we respect the other person’s perspective too,we by the other side of coin too….I have realized it takes really long to grow up to the extent to of getting into the someone else’s shoe to understand his/her perspective.I cannt still do it to the level I want to,I am yet to grow up to that extent.Growing up is the kind o’ journey rather than the destination – a continuous process.

This office thing is turning to be catalyst in my process of growing up..The Boss is always right thing has made me learn to keep quiet and in turn accept what it is,which I couldn’t have at all accepted of course if I could have had the chance…. 😉 To be frank it is not that I value the perspectives or respect this relation/person but then it is the way it is… #fact,no matter I like it or I dont.The way things are overridden used to hurt me like anything,but now I can cope with it without hurting myself, again growing up it is I guess…

To give upon the things for the sake of goodness can be growing up, but at the same time we cannot accept loosing everywhere and claim that we are growing up.One must hold on where it so needed.Giving up is no way acceptable everywhere…

 I have enjoyed tangling around giving/growing up…. 🙂 So to conclude I would say

To grow up is –

to let go

to make peace

to accept

to see beyond right/wrong…………..

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