Its all about thats on my mind…….



and that is selfesteem…!

You cannot see it every where but only when you look at yourself in the mirror. You cannot hear it in the zillon sounds outside, but only in the your own inner voice. Its not about who all like you, its about how you like yourself. Its not about what world thinks you have as good, its about what you think is good about you. Its not about how in many eyes you see respect for yourself, its about how much you have it in your own eyes for you….! Does all that define what the self-esteem is? Well may be not completely, but yes they definitely form a part of it.

I have been realizing that to have a really good self-esteem is as important as finding a meaning for your life. World can totally crush you down like anything if you lack it. You are loved when you love yourself at the first place. You are looked up to when you look up to yourself first. Its definitely not about feeling or behaving as if you are self-contained or 100 % or perfect, its just about being kind to you own self and living with realization that you have things those can be counted as good.

Good self-esteem is no one step formula to success or answers you are seeking for, but it definitely can be your guard/companion when life puts you at stake.

To be esteemed and compassionate selves is what we need to be have a peaceful life…!
And that is all for now…. 🙂


faith is what all we need and have….!

Came across a very appealing poem today. Its writen in Marathi, posting it here with translation to the best I can.

देवासमोर उभा होतो
हताश मी हात जोडून

(I was stadning in front of the God for praying)

डोळ्यामध्ये पाणी होते

(with the eyes wait)
मनातून पूर्ण मोडून

(completely devastated)
देवा !” मी म्हणालो, “काय करू कळत नाही
… “
प्रश्नाच उत्तर मिळत नाही

(I said to god : I am not sure as to what shoud I do, I am not finding answers to my questions)
विश्वास ठेवदेव म्हणाला

(“Keep the Faith” : God said)
देवा सगळेच रस्ते बंद आहेत

(Almost all the doors are closed)
आशेचे दिवे मंद आहेत

(lights of hopes are flickering)
विश्वास ठेवदेव म्हणाला

(“Keep the Faith” :God said)
देवा आज असं वास्तव आहे
जिथे आशेचा किरण नाही

(God the reality is that there is no scope of hope)
उद्या काही छान असेल
असा आजचा क्षण नाही

(Time is such that,that there is no possibility of soothing tommorrow)
तर कशावर मी विश्वास ठेवावा

(then what should I belive in?)
जगामध्ये विश्वास आहे
याचा तुझ्याकडे काय पुरावा ? ”

(Do you have any proof to show that something like “Faith” even exists in the world)
शांतपणे हसत देव मला म्हणाला

(God smiled silently ans said 🙂
पक्षी उडतो आकाशात, आपले पंख पसरून

(When birds fly in the sky with the wings wide open)
विश्वास असतो त्याचा, खाली पडण्यावर

(It has faith that it is not going to fall down)
मातीमध्ये बी पेरतो, रोज त्याला पाणी देतो

(We sow the seed and water it every day)
विश्वास असतो तेव्हा तुझा रोप जन्म घेण्यावर

(we do it with the faith that, plant is going to take birth)
बाळ झोपते खुशीत, आईच्या कुशीत,

(baby seelps in the mothers arms)
विश्वास असतो त्याचा, तिने साम्भाळून घेण्यावर

(with the faith that she is going to take care)
उद्याचे बेत बनवतो, रात्री डोळे मीटतो,

(you plan for tomorrow in the night with the eyes closed)
विश्वास असतो तेंव्हा तुझा पुन्हा प्रकाश होण्यावर

(you do it the belife that it is going to be light the next morining)
आज माझ्या दारी येऊन, आपलं मनातलं दुखः घेऊन,

(you have come to me today with all your sorrows)
विश्वास आहे तुझा कारण मी हाक ऐकण्यावर

(and you have faith that I am going to listen to you)
असाच विश्वास जागव मनात, परिस्थिती बदलते एका क्षणात

(have the same faith inside and the situations change with the blink of eye)
आजची स्थिती अशीच राहील,असं कुठेही लिहिलेल नाही

(it is not writen any where that todays situation is what it will be forever)
उद्याच चित्र कसं राहील, तू काहीच पाहीलेल नाही

(you have no idea about what it is going to be tomorrows picture)
जिथवर तुझी दृष्टी आहे, त्याही पुढे सृष्टी आहे

(life exists far beyond your vision)
तुझ्या बुद्धीच्यापलीकडेही बऱ्याच गोष्टी घडत असतात

(many things happen around which are beyond your imagination)
आशेचे तुटलेले धागे तुझ्या नकळत जोडत असतात

(broken strings of the web of hopes are woven without you knowing it)
तुझ्या नकळत तुझ्यासमोर, असा एक क्षण येईल,
ज्याची आशा सोडली होतीस, ते स्वप्न खरं होईल

(there will come a moment where your left behind dream will be reality)
म्हणून….सगळे रस्ते बंद होतील

(so, when all the roads are closed)
तेंव्हा फक्तविश्वास ठेव

(just keep the Faith then)
जिथे संपते मर्यादा तुझी,
तिथून साथ देतो देव !

(God stars helping you from there where you abilities come to an end…..!)

Festive fragerance – I can already smell it, do you?

I know it’s almost a week more for that day when festival of lights is going to start, but I have already started feeling that festive thing inside.I don’t know if its my psychological concern or it is there in the air actually,but I can smell it and I am loving it. Its gonna be light and bright all around. Air itself seems to be carrying some gaseous contents of joy, bliss,enthusiasm, ain’t it?

This is the very festival which is awaited year-long – right from the last day of it to the its first day of the next year. We celebrate the victory of good over the bad,victory of light over the dark. And this very reason of celebration makes Diwali mine favorite amongst all Indian festivals. Well its something different for me this year as I am bringing a journey to an end before the Diwali is to start and would be starting the new one post Diwali.(Story later). Though it is not like the journey which is being brought to an end is bad or dark but I want the new start to be bright for sure. Okay back to Diwali now –

Market place here is all decorated with lanterns of various sizes and shapes. Beautiful they are..! I am eager to post the snaps of the one that we would be hanging in our house.  

And this is reminding me that I am yet to buy the one. 😦 OMG so many things to take note of – the earthen lamps, rangoli colors and the list continues with the girly stuff. You people wont find crackers listed here as to be honest I am afraid of them and I prefer celebrating echo friendly festivals. Btw how you people are up with your Diwali shopping? Keep posted of how it is for you.

This again a just dropping by post as that what time is permitting me to do. But I just so wanted to write and that’s it..! Wish you all wonderful people out there a very happy,prosperous and safe Diwali in advance…! And I’ll be right back with a another proper festive Post..! Till  then have a great time….!  🙂

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