Its all about thats on my mind…….


July 2015

rant – random…!

Okay so there’s a lot to pen down and I don’t know where should I start. Thanks to MIL that she made me take off from office and I finally found time to jot this post down. Post is going to be pretty random so read at your own risk.

** Mentality is something that is going to take another 1000 years or so to change for accepting females are as good as males are. If a girl who is as much as educated as your son is and does not know to cook or take care of the house as your son does not it absolutely okay. There’s nothing like this type of work is something that is a woman patent. We girls were and are equally busy doing engineering and a 40 hours a week job now as your sons are. Universities /corporate offices do not grant us extra privileges or discounts that we girls have to learn culinary things. So to all moms who have working and even non working DILs please spare us of those special comments, we have equal hardships as your beloved son as when we step out of the house. Please stop comparing between your IT professional DIL with a lecturer or a full time home maker neighbour. Its all about individuals own area of interest. We work in IT does not mean we are spoiled children. And if still you insist it to be so then that equally applies to your son period.

** Old age is a phase of like very similar to what childhood is. People become stubborn and difficult and tender to handle. Hospitalisation at such a stage of life is even more difficult things but perhaps unavoidable thing. I am witnessing it very closely these days. How helpless is that feeling when you know you cannot do anything yourself. Not even you can sit or sleep when you wish to without someone else’s help. There’s absolutely nothing that you can but recover out of this phase with the help of your will power as soon as you can. This is really scary. I wish to die without any kind of hospitalisation. It is blessing if you have people to care for you in your helpless phase.

** We (me and the boy) are leading life quiet well on the personal/ individual fronts. But its square zero for the relationship, reason being we are not finding time at all for nurturing it or letting it grow. Sigh…! I need a solution to this problem ASAP. I cannot let this continue for any hell reason on the earth. I am craving for those free and contentment full moments…!

** Sister is finally here. Hope she finds a job soon. I wish to find out time for her too. Perhaps she needs it at the moment. I don’t know how quickly and well she can catch up with hostel life,so little worried.

** Professional life is screwing me up for past quiet many days. Change is what I am looking for and that’s is the only solution to the problem now. They love your job but not company is what is 100 % true. Loyalty and honesty are not meant for IT firms. Moving on the only principal that works here. Started taking baby steps no matter how difficult it is. Let’s see where I land up.


worth it…!

Subject: SELF WORTH (Very Deep!!!) In a brief
conversation, a man asked a woman he was
pursuing the question: ‘What kind of man are you
looking for?’ She sat quietly for a moment before
looking him in the eye & asking, ‘Do you really
want to know?’ Reluctantly, he said, ‘Yes. She
began to expound, ‘As a woman in this day &
age, I am in a position to ask a man what can
you do for me that I can’t do for myself? I pay
my own bills. I take care of my household
without the help of any man… or woman for that
matter. I am in the position to ask, ‘What can
you bring to the table?’ The man looked at her.
Clearly he thought that she was referring to
money. She quickly corrected his thought &
stated, ‘I am not referring to money. I need
something more. I need a man who is striving for
excellence in every aspect of life. He sat back in
his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to
explain. She said, ‘I need someone who is
striving for excellence mentally because I need
conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a
simple-minded man. I need someone who is
striving for excellence spiritually because I don’t
need to be unequally yoked…believers mixed
with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a
man who is striving for excellence financially
because I don’t need a financial burden. I need
someone who is sensitive enough to understand
what I go through as a woman, but strong
enough to keep me grounded. I need someone
who has integrity in dealing with relationships.
Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a
strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented.
One who can be the leader, priest and provider
to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need
someone whom I can respect. In order to be
submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be
submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his
business. I have no problem being
submissive…he just has to be worthy. And by
the way, I am not looking for him…He will find
me. He will recognize himself in me. Hey may
not be able to explain the connection, but he will
always be drawn to me. God made woman to be
a help-mate for man. I can’t help a man if he
can’t help himself. When she finished her spill,
she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled
look on his face. He said, ‘You are asking a lot.
She replied, “I’m worth a lot”. Send this to every
woman who’s worth a lot…. and every man who
has the brains to understand!!

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